Control

The weather lately has been very interesting, it is much colder than it has been in previous years. Spring is coming, but just how soon? This is a question I hear frequently as a result of the abnormally cold weather. This is of course the time of year when everyone is sick of the snow. They want it gone so they can enjoy their outdoor activities. I understand this, but why use all our energy to complain about something we ultimately cannot control?

There is no way anyone can control the weather, it is impossible. Therefore it should not be something that weighs down on our minds. Just go with the flow! When I saw the snow flying like crazy just after the first day of Spring I had a choice, to see it in a negative light and fret all the extra work it was causing me or to truly enjoy the absolute beauty of the whole spectacle. It was in fact beautiful, seeing all the snow swirling through the sky, watching the tree branches hang from its weight. This snow does not mean my motorcycle season will be cut short, it means my cross-country ski season is extended.

Now what does this have to do with my kung fu? Several aspects really. It is about recognizing what you can or cannot control and not getting agitated when something goes wrong (injury, job loss, relocation). It is also about looking at things with a more compassionate mindset, to not allow a potential altercation to flourish because you want a situation to go a certain way. To remain calm in a conflict so you can defend yourself accordingly.

I draw inspiration for this from my supervisor at work. He has to be one of the most calm, easy going people I know. When faced with a problem he just says, "Well, what can we do? You just do what needs to be done."