I have been thinking about the paradox of technology and communication. We have the ability to speak with someone face to face on the other side of the world and message each other back and forth instantly. This is great, it makes the Earth feel like a much smaller place and allows you to keep in touch with friends abroad easier.
The problem I find with all this is we are slowly losing the experience of true face to face communication. When you are around people nowadays, it is more difficult to remain in the moment and engage in conversation with them, without the distraction of an incoming email or text message. Everyone has their phone on them and it is just too easy to zone out of where you are and check it.
I decided during the holidays this year to consciously leave my phone in a jacket or another room while visiting friends and family to remove the distraction entirely. I am there to visit THEM, not send messages to others.
I recognize the importance of being able to get a hold of someone when you need to, but do you really need to every waking moment? No. If someone can't reach you right away, no big deal. This is why voicemail was developed, very few situations require your immediate attention.
Have a happy new year everyone! Remember to stay present and celebrate with the people around you, they are around you for a reason.
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